When parents no longer live under the same roof, it is called co-parenting. Co-parenting provides a model for working together, while no longer living together. This mean letting go of previous patterns of relating and finding new ones that prioritize the children’s well-being.
One helpful new pattern is for ex-partners to establish an effective “business” or “working” relationship.
Such a relationship focuses on specific goals and limits the emotional involvement of the two parties.
The divorce may have been adversarial, but co-parenting doesn’t have to be. The separated parties are no longer responsible for one another’s emotions.
“Removing emotions from communication does not mean denying them. Find another time or place to express them safely where they will be less likely to negatively influence the co-parent relationship and your child.”
The more of the above 6 characteristics your co-parenting relationship exhibits, the more effective it will be.
Summarized from TFEC’s co-parenting course materials.
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